Don\'t allow chat room

[Alexsen]

Hello,
I have just discovery this chat and it's amazing. I want to use it for a dating website.
But i don't want to do moderation. I won't to allow the room where every body can send a message. I just want that people can send private message.
How to do it?
Thanks for help.

[OldWolf]

People trying to start dating websites come in here all the time with that... you're going to have to modify how the chat works in order to do that. You'll have to get your hands dirty and dive into the code. If you want to post what you do, I'm sure it will help future users.

[Alexsen]

I need help. I m not a coder. If someone find the way to do it plus help me.